There’s that adage; if you’re not being challenged then you’re never going to change. Well, watch out – I have a feeling I might be a whole new person soon – so many new challenges are getting thrown into my face right now. But I guess that ain’t so bad!

As I oscillate between total excitement and sheer terror at what’s before me, I just try to keep my eye on the little golden nugget that exists in any uncertain situation: opportunity. It’s in those unsure places where the most powerful opportunities often hide. It’s all about persevering so you can actually harness them. Trust me, I know that’s easier said than done. If I had the secret to success I’d share it in heartbeat {if you know it, will you share??}. For now, I’m just going to take a deep breath and plow ahead. Or at least I will on Monday. This fall I’ve dedicated myself to truly enjoying my weekends! That means walks on the beach, making dinner with music on in the background, reading something fascinating and catching up with an old friend. You’re much better equipped to face what’s challenging you when you feed your soul first.

Here are a few things we think might do that for you this weekend. Till Monday friends!

> This cracker recipe is life changing.

> This proves Linda Rodin is one badass fashion icon.

> We’re looking for house renovation inspo everywhere! This design duo. Ba-na-nas.

> Have you spotted this? The “hand bracelet” is the hottest new thing.

> This is another food blog that you NEED to follow.

> This coat is on sale for only how much??? Get in my closet NOW.

image via the refined woman