Every couple deserves to live in a home that they both love. Unfortunately, for most that is easier said than done! Decorating a home that both he and she approves of requires a lot of compromise and patience. Trust me, I speak from experience!

That’s why when Joss and Main invited me to curate my first-ever Apartment 34 collection, I jumped at the chance to share what I’ve learned!!

Launching at 9:00 pm ET today, we’re hoping you’ll find the perfect yin and yang balance with our Joss and Main His & Hers Curated Collection.

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First, let’s do a little breakdown of masculine and feminine design.

In more masculine rooms, there tends to be neutral and darker color palettes. Furniture lines are clean, streamlined and are often more modern. You’ll tend to find different finishes of wood, varying from dark to light with chrome accents and modern art on the walls. And you can bet on finding a leather piece in there somewhere!

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Feminine rooms are usually a bit more colorful. Tufted and velvet pieces of furniture are often combined with delicate glass, gold or brass accents. Obviously, vases and flowers are a must. And you are likely to find pattern and texture interwoven throughout the room.

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Here are some styling tips and our hand picked favorites Joss and Main collection to help you create a gender neutral space that you both want to live in!

Tip 1: Start with a more masculine base. This means wall color and big pieces of furniture should be in a neutral color palette. You also want to stick to clean lines and stay away from anything too curvy. This really helps to set a more neutral tone in the room. Just remember feminine pieces speak much louder than masculine ones!

Tip 2: Bring in texture and pattern in accent pieces. Think a patterned rug and accent pillows. Drape in a cashmere throw on the sofa or add a pop of color in an accent table. A more modern chair upholstered in glamorous velvet is a great compromise accent piece.

Tip 3: The third layer should involve more feminine touches. A vase of flowers instantly brings femininity to the room. Just remember feminine pieces speak much louder than masculine ones. So for as many gold vases and pretty bowls you bring in, be sure to add a masculine touch to juxtapose the feminine lines. Think industrial objects or a vintage toy.

Here’s an example of a fabulous space that both he and she should totally love.

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Love the look as much as we do?!

Starting tonight (and only until Saturday!), shop our Joss and Main Collection to grab the pieces that will work in any home and are guaranteed to be a hit.

If you shop the sale be sure to come back and tell us what you bought!

PS: Still not a Joss and Main member? Get your exclusive invitation right here

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Even though the temperatures are warming, that doesn’t mean you have to compromise sophisticated style. You can still look cool while staying cool! The Spring 2013 collection from Adam Lippes is a prime example.

The beyond-chic combinations of separates; from skirts to trousers to jackets, is uniform dressing at its best. One designer; one entire wardrobe. Done and done! It doesn’t get better, or easier, than these beautifully chic work wear looks.

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The first is the simple silhouettes. Close to the body, no bells and whistles required. These are classic pieces at their best.

The second is the pop of color with each shoe. It’s the perfect way to give a nod to the season’s trends without over-investing in trendy pieces. Those baby-blue suede pumps? Swoon!

Finally, I love the below the knee lengths of all of Adam’s ensembles. Hems that hit from just below to the knee to the ankle no longer feel dowdy. Instead they feel fresh, fashion-forward and even daring! A mini is so yesterday.

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What do you think? Do classic styles stand the test of time or do they just feel boring to you?

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Bookshelves are an essential tool in your styling arsenal. Book collections are the no-brainer way to add personality to a room. But sometimes you need a breath of fresh air and this week’s Idea to Steal is just that.

What if, instead a cacophony of random titles, all those different colors and fonts screaming at you, you just turned the spines around?! Suddenly, you have a soft, neutral and monochromatic look.

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My dear friend Kirsten of Simply Grove actually caught a ton of flack for this concept when she debuted it back in 2010, but my how things change!

Nearly three years later the look is popping up everywhere. And given that I love pretty much every idea Kirsten ever has, of course, I’m loving this too. In fact, we already tried it in a little corner of the loft. I’ll be sharing a sneak peek on Instagram later today!

What do you think? Are you a fan of the anonymous bookshelf idea?

image 1 piero lissoni showroom // image 2 by joshua simpson for remodelista // image 3 by alexis toureau for maison & deco